Bring consent out of the bedroom. I think part of the reason we have trouble drawing the line “it’s not okay to force someone into sexual activity” is that in many ways, forcing people to do things is part of our culture in general. Cut that shit out of your life. If someone doesn’t want to go to a party, try a new food, get up and dance, make small talk at the lunchtable—that’s their right. Stop the “aww c’mon” and “just this once” and the games where you playfully force someone to play along. Accept that no means no—all the time.
Ways I am saving this day:
- ice cream
- power tool shopping
Today was hard.
So on the way home I bought myself flowers.
And then this ice cream, which is absolutely mouthgasmy.
And when I got home, there was a package of jewelry waiting in the mail.
So it’s kinda like I’m wooing myself.
Which, hey, all things considered, is still pretty nice.
I hate when a weekend goes by wasted for some medical reason or other. If I don’t do things, even just around the house, I feel like no time has passed, like I’m still just as weary as I was getting home on Friday.
I’m not prepared for tomorrow morning at all.
wait, if it is daylight saving time today - does that mean my cat is understandable for being a kitchen-focused dick because he thinks it’s 4 when the clock says 3, or is he especially being a dick because it’s only 2 in his head?
Spring forward, yeah? So, he thinks it’s 2, yeah? And is just being a dick?
It’s a difficult day when the answer to “am I hungry or do I want to throw up” is “both.”